I know I'm getting somewhat off the topic here, but...
Dre Naismith wrote:The Jordan Rules was more about Mike's UNBELIEVABLE SELFISHNESS. The average NBA fan of today tends to romanticize Michael Jordan because of a) his remarkable successes and b) because he created an image along with his marketing team that portrayed him to be almost a deity. Funny thing is all the criticisms that Kobe gets about his actions PALE in comparison to that of selfish Mike.
I read and own a copy of the Jordan Rules, and while I'm willing to believe that behind the scenes MJ was not always easy to get along with and whatnot, it still read very much like a smear campaign.
Also consider Horace Grant's position in the book. He was unhappy with MJ's "selfishness" because he wanted a bigger role in the offense and more shots himself. Is this not also selfishness? Grant still wanted to take more shots himself, something that he was criticising MJ for.
Dre Naismith wrote:The author Sam Smith does an excellent job of portraying Mike as he really was, not a hatchet job mind you, but the unadulterated truth. It is my firm belief that every NBA fan (especially those born after 1980) should read this book. You won't regret it. Just like every Kobe fan should read "Mad Game" by Roland Lazenby.
How can we be sure that he's portraying MJ as he really was? Simply because it goes against the more favourable image that was cultivated? As I said before, I don't think it's all made up or that MJ is perfect or anything like that, but seeing as Smith's intent is to "expose the real MJ" so to speak, what's stopping him from exaggerating the negative points and/or omitting other events that presented MJ more favourably?
It might be presenting another side of things, but I don't think it can be called the whole truth. When the motive is to expose and present someone in a different light, I think the truth always get somewhat distorted, if only because redeeming actions are ignored.
A lot of good things have been said about Michael Jordan, but also a lot of bad things some of which have nothing to do with basketball. There are a lot of double-standards both in his favour and against him. Consider how he was blasted for gambling in a casino while Charles Barkley makes controversial comments about violence against women without apology or remorse, spits on an eight year old fan, has numerous brushes with the law and is considered a "colourful character".
I don't think the selfishness and negative character aspects MJ is portrayed as having in The Jordan Rules are unique to him, nor is the preferred positive image that is always promoted. I would suggest that other players who didn't benefit as much from the NBA marketing machine exhibit similar qualities behind closed doors, there simply hasn't been as much written about them.
Historically, I think more people (and in particular the media) are quicker to pounce on Michael Jordan and criticise him than most players. I can understand people disliking him, even though I'm a huge fan I don't expect everyone else to share the same esteem. What bothers me is that harsh criticism of other players, like Kobe, is "hating" while harsh criticisms of Jordan are always "telling the truth", "showing intelligence" and "exposing the lies".
I guess part of my frustration is the fact that anyone who admits to being a Jordan fan is generally regarded as having blind devotion and lacking any real knowledge of the game, and I'll certainly admit that through the 90s there were certainly people who were like that. But as a Jordan fan who tries to be as impartial as possible and holds a healthy appreciation for the rest of the NBA and the players through history, it's frustrating to be considered a lesser fan or stupid simply because Michael Jordan is my favourite player.
I know I've wandered off the topic and I'm sure I've come off as being much more aggressive than I planned to, and I certainly don't mean to attack you Dre or belittle your opinion or anything like that - far from it. I just think that MJ's less endearing and less admirable qualities are slightly exaggerated in the name of ruining his image, and that "Jordan hating" seems to be justified while it's considered poor sportsmanship when directed towards other players.
I think the bottom line is, we should admire these athletes for their on-court performance, marvel at their performances and respect their ability, but when it comes to their personal lives, we should look elsewhere for role models and make our own decisions based on our own morals and principles rather than emulating the lifestyles pro athletes appear to lead.