okay to kick of this oh so interesting thread i'll be the one to ask first.
here's the situation, i dont know if everyone has a very close friend from the opposite sex but i do....almost every school year back in my schooling days the girls that are close to me varies.....but somewhere in my college years i met someone who at first was quiet ugly then near grad she blooms her way to a beauty queen...and i thought our friendship and closeness days were over....not until i hit the big job in the big city...she called me up and we meet about last year. we have been dating ever since everytime i am in their city..and guess what i even sleep over at times........the problem is my gf doesn't know about this...and my close friend friends is already giving the both of us the dirty grin....i think they want us to be together...this past week while i was in training and seminar for the promotion i stayed up 4 nights at her apartment... and to be honest there are some weird feelings going on....and to think of it my girl is out of the country..singapore...she's been gone for about 2 weeks now to attend to their japanese restaurant there.she'll be back end of month...maybe it is just the loneliness and all
the big QUES:
is it normal to fall in love with your best friend? or someone close to you from the opposite sex?
