by Andrew on Thu Aug 22, 2019 10:55 pm
Alright, so I've split these posts off from the NBA 2K20 Screenshots topic because things did get a little sidetracked and heated to say the least, and I wanted to clean up that topic so that we could keep using it.
I do want to say that we usually do like to allow a bit of banter and back-and-forth in debates and conversations. We've found that if we get too strict, it makes people wary of posting lest they get a warning or ban, resulting in unenthusiastic and sterile conversations. On this occasion though, the banter did get a bit too heated and personal, which isn't what we want to see. Of course, when a point is made in a confrontational manner, it's going to result in some "spirited" push-back. The level of discourse is set by those initial posts, though at the same time, how we choose to respond to each other obviously also plays a role in how the conversation proceeds from there. This is a conversation that could've been more civil and split off to continue separately, but it definitely got off on the wrong foot and has since run its course.
What I would like to see is the same enthusiasm in the NBA section (where much of this discussion would be most welcome, albeit in a less confrontational manner), and discussion of the game itself. Again, a bit of banter is fine and passion is great, but please don't let it get this personal. We're capable of being much better than Twitter-level "debates" around here. So yeah, by all means bring the banter as you have debates and conversations about games, or the NBA in the off-topic section, but don't sully it with personal attacks. It's also best not to come in hot when there's a difference of opinion, because when the banter starts out at Level 100, it doesn't take much to escalate into a full blown flame war. Like I said, put that energy towards discussing the games themselves. And hey, if you want to talk about the real NBA, we've got a section for that as well.
Finally, I'd love it if we could be a community that avoids the whole "Old Heads vs. Dumb Kids" mentality that has infected message boards, social media, and comments sections, to the detriment of the level of discourse pretty much everywhere online these days. So much rhetoric flies around there, and it only adds to the bad blood that derails good conversations and acceptable banter. Once again, let's be better than that here.
That's all. Back to business.