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[Riot]

I've grown to hate most high school girls these days. I love looking at some of them but I can't stand listening to them. I hate all the superficial relationships that go on in high school. For whatever reason it just pisses me off.

Granted, it's not like girls are lining up for me but I prefer it that way right now. I really don't have the time or the patience to deal with the bitching of a high school relationship. It's all about drama and whatever. It's just not my cup of tea.

Of course...a lack of confidence also plays a part in this. I just don't feel comfortable going up to a girl I don't know and asking her out. That obviously plays apart in why I am the way I am. Maybe I do not care about relationships right now because I am not capable of getting one? Fuck. I'm making myself look like a retard here.

Bottom line: high school chicks piss me off.

[Jugs]

Today is D-Day. I'm hoping. Today is when I'm going to attempt to make me and the girl I like a "serious relationship" lol.

I'm pooing.

[J@3]

I've grown to hate most high school girls these days. I love looking at some of them but I can't stand listening to them. I hate all the superficial relationships that go on in high school. For whatever reason it just pisses me off.

Granted, it's not like girls are lining up for me but I prefer it that way right now. I really don't have the time or the patience to deal with the bitching of a high school relationship. It's all about drama and whatever. It's just not my cup of tea.

Of course...a lack of confidence also plays a part in this. I just don't feel comfortable going up to a girl I don't know and asking her out. That obviously plays apart in why I am the way I am. Maybe I do not care about relationships right now because I am not capable of getting one? Fuck. I'm making myself look like a retard here.

Bottom line: high school chicks piss me off.

I think you'll look back in a few years time and realise you're 100% right. High school relationships are ridiculously shallow and based on virtually nothing. So many other people are involved throughout the school and whatever that it ends up degenerating into nothing more than really being with someone because of how they look.

[[Q]]

I've grown to hate most high school girls these days. I love looking at some of them but I can't stand listening to them. I hate all the superficial relationships that go on in high school. For whatever reason it just pisses me off.

Granted, it's not like girls are lining up for me but I prefer it that way right now. I really don't have the time or the patience to deal with the bitching of a high school relationship. It's all about drama and whatever. It's just not my cup of tea.

Of course...a lack of confidence also plays a part in this. I just don't feel comfortable going up to a girl I don't know and asking her out. That obviously plays apart in why I am the way I am. Maybe I do not care about relationships right now because I am not capable of getting one? Fuck. I'm making myself look like a retard here.

Bottom line: high school chicks piss me off.

I think you'll look back in a few years time and realise you're 100% right. High school relationships are ridiculously shallow and based on virtually nothing. So many other people are involved throughout the school and whatever that it ends up degenerating into nothing more than really being with someone because of how they look.

yeah looking back, I think exactly the same way... I kind of avoided that whole scene in high school because it all seemed so superficial to me. What you get in high school are immature girls while in college, you still do get those, you have a better chance of finding something better. seems like highschool in Australia isn't that much different from the US in that aspect.

[Matt]

highschool is the same everywhere essentially. I don't care though, because if i started dealing with HS girls i'd probably end up in jail.

[cyanide]

I gotta agree with the high school girls above. High school relationships just don't last. It's just all a superficial popularity contest. The guys are in it just for the pride factor and the girls are just in it to make themselves look cool. It's just immature and shallow.

[Jackal]

As much as you folks call it garbage and what not, the highschool relationships are a lot of fun. Highschool was the playground, you learned a lot of stuff in highschool, not everything in class by the way.

So yeah, congrats to you guys for being above the superficial relationships and what not, but I loved em.

[bigh0rt]

As much as you folks call it garbage and what not, the highschool relationships are a lot of fun. Highschool was the playground, you learned a lot of stuff in highschool, not everything in class by the way.

So yeah, congrats to you guys for being above the superficial relationships and what not, but I loved em.

I agree. You guys are trashing high school 'relationships' because they don't last and are superficial, etc. but honestly, is that what you're looking for when you're 16 - 17 years old?? I certainly know I wasn't. I was much more concerned about getting into whatever honeypot I could...

[cyanide]

^ Not I. The whole superficiality thing was a turn-off. I think I was at my peak of apathy like Riot is now when I hit my last year of high school.

[Donatello]

my girlfriend is wonderful and my life is nearly perfect

help what do i do? omg

[Jackal]

I'm guessing people who think like Cy and Riot were/are best friends with their right hands.

That's the only conclusion I'm coming to, if you weren't in to the superficial relationships, it was either your right/left hand or spontaneous eruption during gym class.

[Riot]

I'm guessing people who think like Cy and Riot were/are best friends with their right hands.

Damn straight.

[Donatello]

Left hand for me.

[Jugs]

I need to be shot in the foot.

Or grow some balls.

The opportunity is there and I don't even mention about being a couple or anything. For fucks sake, everyone is giving me the greenlight and no, I can not muster the balls to ask her.

GOD DAMN.

[J@3]

[Laxation] You need to tell her she's worthless and that no guy would even spit on her if she was on fire, but since you feel so sorry for her you'll go out with her out of pity [/Laxation]

[Jugs]

lmao.

Laxation told me to tell her "i just wanna be friends" so I get the "upper hand" because I'm "friendzoned"

I'm still friendzoned but that's no the point!

Laxation's analysis after I told her i felt the same way about her was "she wants your load jugs"

I think he got that part right.

[Nick]

Laxation told me to tell her "i just wanna be friends" so I get the "upper hand" because I'm "friendzoned"

Except that "Laxation" doesn't know "shit" about "relationships".

[Jugs]

Which is "why" i didn't tell her "that"

[J@3]

my girlfriend is wonderful and my life is nearly perfect

help what do i do? omg

Tell her you're not interested in her, then just ignore her for a few weeks and act like an arrogant jackass everytime she's around because girls love a socially inept guy who can't express himself properly. Oh, and if she ever says she loves you, screw up your face like this and walk away.

At least that's how I'm interpreting the advice given on the first post.

[shadowgrin]

What's with the heat against Laxation? Don't be surprised if he takes all the ideas in this thread and compiles it for his book about relationships. He's pimp.

[cyanide]

I'm guessing people who think like Cy and Riot were/are best friends with their right hands.

For sure. It made me ambidextrous

[Laxation]

Tell her you're not interested in her, then just ignore her for a few weeks and act like an arrogant jackass everytime she's around because girls love a socially inept guy who can't express himself properly. Oh, and if she ever says she loves you, screw up your face like this and walk away.

At least that's how I'm interpreting the advice given on the first post.

You should watch the Tao of Steve (a movie)
It helped explain this shit to me a lot...

You dont have to believe it, but for some reason - when you care less about the outcome, when you ignore girls (not totally, but you arent all over them) - they are way more inclined to be all over you
When you dont care, you say and do all the right things

Jugs - until you are actually in a relationship with her, dont give me shit... you apparently dont even have the fucking balls to ask her out

cyanide - i dont have a girlfriend (not looking for one), but you are right... this works fucking wonders for one nighters

[koberulz]

Tell her you're not interested in her, then just ignore her for a few weeks and act like an arrogant jackass everytime she's around because girls love a socially inept guy who can't express himself properly. Oh, and if she ever says she loves you, screw up your face like this and walk away.

At least that's how I'm interpreting the advice given on the first post.

You should watch the Tao of Steve (a movie)
It helped explain this shit to me a lot...

that explains everything.

[J@3]

You dont have to believe it, but for some reason - when you care less about the outcome, when you ignore girls (not totally, but you arent all over them) - they are way more inclined to be all over you
When you dont care, you say and do all the right things

I think it really depends on how comfortable you are talking to girls to begin with. I mean I do care quite alot and I still seem to say and do all the right things, considering I do have a girlfriend and have had various other girlfriends in the past using the same methods... I think it depends on the kind of person you're after really. Your methods seem like they'd work more on high school type girls who get together with their friends and talk about these little crushes etc.

I'm not saying they'd have a 0% success rate because obviously there would be cases where it works, but as an adult none of these things would be something I would apply.

[Jugs]

I talked to the girl I like for 90 minutes and now have proceeded to have an msn conversation for like 2 more hours.

Dr. Nick prescribes that she wants me and she still possesses interest in me.

Now I need to muster the balls like Laxation said.