The Relationship Thread

[hipn]

Never trust a Polish Woman. What grade are you again ? Is weird how people just ask the people out like, "You wanna go out with me ?" Something like that jus post to happen.

I remember in Gr.8, I went up to this chick and said those words and she said, "Yes". Nothing special happened, I broke up with her the next three days.

LOL yea a lot of times I dont trust her.

[BOSS]

Never trust a Polish Woman. What grade are you again ? Is weird how people just ask the people out like, "You wanna go out with me ?" Something like that jus post to happen.

I remember in Gr.8, I went up to this chick and said those words and she said, "Yes". Nothing special happened, I broke up with her the next three days.

LOL yea a lot of times I dont trust her.

Than what kinda relationship is that if you can't trust her

[hipn]

Never trust a Polish Woman. What grade are you again ? Is weird how people just ask the people out like, "You wanna go out with me ?" Something like that jus post to happen.

I remember in Gr.8, I went up to this chick and said those words and she said, "Yes". Nothing special happened, I broke up with her the next three days.

LOL yea a lot of times I dont trust her.

Than what kinda relationship is that if you can't trust her

No I do trust her and everything, but just sometimes I can tell that she isnt telling the truth, but she keeps saying shes telling me the truth, but later I find out she waslying.

[cyanide]

Then you can't trust her.

[trecenters]

Is getting them in bed on the first date a Relationship?

[hipn]

I dont think so, well it can be, but its better to not rush things.

[Drex]

It works for some people

[Rip32]

Here I've got a question, I've heard its easier to get a chick like, right after she dumps a guy, or when she gets dumped, like a rebound. Is that true, is it easier to just swoop in and grab em when theyre open?

Im asking because an ex of mine has been leading me on for prolly a month now, writing me notes that say like "Im sorry" and "I made a mistake". And we've hung out alot, and now shes gonna be going out with some other guy she's been talking to for awhile. I know her relationship will be done in 3 weeks max, but im woundering if i should jump in right after its done and start to pursue her again or wait a lil while after?

[Drex]

Some people think that it's easier 'cause they're feeling alone, and need somebody to be with her.

[J@3]

If you jump in right after it's done you better get what you can quickly because it'll only last a week or so.

[hipn]

Here I've got a question, I've heard its easier to get a chick like, right after she dumps a guy, or when she gets dumped, like a rebound. Is that true, is it easier to just swoop in and grab em when theyre open?

Im asking because an ex of mine has been leading me on for prolly a month now, writing me notes that say like "Im sorry" and "I made a mistake". And we've hung out alot, and now shes gonna be going out with some other guy she's been talking to for awhile. I know her relationship will be done in 3 weeks max, but im woundering if i should jump in right after its done and start to pursue her again or wait a lil while after?

Be her friend first, like just hang out with her a lot and talk to her a lot, you know, thats how I get girls to like me... I talk to them a lot and jsut hang out with them a lot... for example if you aren't doing anything during school and you see her alone, just go and walk with her or something and start a conv.

[Cable]

I need to get this off my chest and get my thoughts in order. Remember the girl I left on her own on New Year's, and then I felt guilty? Well now I keep catching myself thinking about her, I get this weird feeling. There's a bunch of things though, like I hardly know her; I only see her like 2-3 times a year even though she's my neighbour; I live like 15 mintues from the city so there's nowhere I could walk to with her or meet her; and I don't know how I can talk to her without it seeming weird, we've never talked outside of the couple neighbourhood parties we go to each year. I've thought about calling her, but I think that'd be to awkward. Other then calling her, the only way I could talk to her would be to go to her house and knock on the door, or wait until the next party that happens, which could be next Christmas. The other things are that I don't know if she already has a boyfrievd, and I've never had a girlfriend so this is new for me. It's also Christmas break for another week. I just can't figure out what to do.

It felt good to write all that. You don't need to reply with a whole bunch of ideas, I just needed to get that out.

EDIT: I've got one more thing to add. Where I live is open and fairly flat, so I think the whole neighbourhood would know if I met with her anywhere around here; I'm a pretty shy guy when it comes to this kind of stuff.

[Drex]

Go to the bathroom and masturbate.


Sounds like your in love or something

[Cable]

Go to the bathroom and masturbate.

You can consider it done. More than once.

[Jona]

You can consider it done. More then once.

More THAN once, you spelling nazi.

[Cable]

Aww fuck.

[j.23]

cableguy what kinda people does she hang around with

[Raps13]

Ok heres a question for yah.....I know this girl and we met through mutual friends but we ourselves have never met (only talked on msn messenger)Although we've known each other for about 4 months now Well its kinda weird cuz for about the last week or so we have been talking more frequently and ive been acting all nice and stuff towards her, and i think she kinda like me and i kida like her too. Well we've sorta been planning on finally meeting. And im just wondering what wud u guys do when we met? If i sense that shes into me shud i wait a few a little while and hang out a few more times in person or shud i go for it right away?

[j.23]

not meant to be an insult or anything but how old are you? if you're older i'd give you one answer - if younger i'll give you another

[Cable]

I honestly have no idea. She goes to a different school, and like I said I only see her like 3 times a year, which is kind of weird because she lives 3 houses down from me. I know next to nothing about her.

[j.23]

ah i see. well i don't suggest knocking on her door and asking her to do something out of the blue because that might seem a little bit weird to her. i say wait for the next gathering to talk to her. it's really the best opportunity or situation you got that doesn't bring any awkwardness. i know speaking for myself i wouldn't knock on her door and ask her to hangout, unless i know she's the happy go lucky type -- but that's just me.

[Cable]

That's what I figured too, I can't see myself walking up to her and asking her to do something. I guess now I wait.

[Riot]

You know what you should do? If you ever see her outside by herself go outside and play basketball and "accidently" roll the ball into her yard. Run up to get it and bam! Start a conversation.

That sounds really stupid.

[Cable]

It's winter, I'm not going outside to play ball

[Raps13]

Ok heres a question for yah.....I know this girl and we met through mutual friends but we ourselves have never met (only talked on msn messenger)Although we've known each other for about 4 months now Well its kinda weird cuz for about the last week or so we have been talking more frequently and ive been acting all nice and stuff towards her, and i think she kinda like me and i kida like her too. Well we've sorta been planning on finally meeting. And im just wondering what wud u guys do when we met? If i sense that shes into me shud i wait a few a little while and hang out a few more times in person or shud i go for it right away?