Not really. A recipe is nothing more than normalization and replication of someone else's application of basic concepts.
All you need to know what spices/herbs go with what others is your own sense of palate. 99+% of recipes out there are bland or overbearing.
Whenever someone says "I don't know what spices to add!" you can ask them "what flavors do you like?" and they have no clue. Then you ask "okay, what foods do you like?" and they tell you, then you can very easily break down the concepts and spices/herbs used in those dishes and let them go forth into experimentation.
The idea there's a "right" way to cook or that there's "proper meals" is what you should be calling BS on. The end result of cooking for yourself should be something you like.