EG wrote:So then why the exaggerated capitalization, spelling, and excessive punctuation? Seemed like a caricature to me...
It seems like one, but sadly, it isn't...
EG wrote:Whenever someone says something that's a negative comment about a person's character or intelligence it's demeaning. They may be observations to that person but they're insults to someone else. A lot of things I say as flippant observations you seem to take as insults also. If you want me to apologize for the initial comment I gladly would if it would mean you'd be more of an adult also...
I never said being a pop culture junkie was a bad thing; I'm probably as much a pop culture junkie as the next guy, but I do have the sense to see past a lot of things that the masses don't. Cynacism isn't always a good thing...
Your initial comment wasn't an observation, it was an attempt to start a discussion such as this. You even admitted to it...although you said that you 'knew this would happen,' as opposed to actually stating that it was your goal for such a discussion...
EG wrote:I'm just still wondering why you're chiding me for a "deletable offense" when you're saying things that people will see as even more demeaning than what I said and you committed an additional blatant violation.
Because you kept bringing it up...it was a jab at the administration of the board, not at you...
EG wrote:Tired...aka...circular...cliched and unending. Obviously we're both saying the same thing...but then why do you get angry when I don't have time during various periods and I just let the circular argument go?
If people would understand what I'm trying to say then there would be no more 'Jordan's the Greatest of All-Time' posts...until then, I'm going to keep repeating myself until they get the idea.
EG wrote:What I asked you initially was how was the word "ever" being used in the sentence. It was being used to mean "at any point in the past." The word "have" only indicated that the word was being used in that way. The point was, as I stated, that the word ever is used in several different ways. You should just recognize what someone is trying to say and reply to it instead of yelling at them about word usage. It's all in the same boat as spelling and grammar correction...
No, the statement's I'm criticizing mean best there is, was, and ever will be. They encompass all time, and, therefore, are impossible and wrong. It's simple as that. Do you really want me to correct for grammar? This is so minor...but it's so huge. If you're debating something, you have to use language correctly in order to get your point across. Otherwise, as in this case, one simply looks uneducated because they don't understand the simple fact that time has not ended and you can't use 'ever' to describe the future. However, people honestly think that MJ is the best player that will ever play the game and no one will be better, and it COULD happen, but the odds are much more in favor of a player surpassing his talent and ability and achievements, and that is my point.
EG wrote:If you intend to be a teacher then you need to realize that there are many, many ways to go about correcting someone when they're wrong. Some will cause the person's behavior to change as desired...some will cause the person to ignore you...and others will get you into a fight.
I'm a really helpful and considerate person to people of lesser intelligence or of ignorance; I enjoy helping them out, showing them how to use prepositions correctly or telling them how to install the NLSC's roster patch in XP (note to self: tell Andrew). I enjoy it, and I'm not a jerk about it. However, I'm harder on people that have the intelligence to figure it out, and I'm harder on the people that should just plain know better. Fight? Heh, no, I know know how to control teenagers...
EG wrote:If your goal is to get someone to change what they're doing you have to be thoughtful and patient.
I put significantly more time into these posts than I do others. I've also been patient. Or stubborn, if you want to call it that. Same thing in this case...
EG wrote:You also need to know how to choose your words.
And I do, very carefully...and I generally get exactly the response I wanted/expected from you. Except for the simple response of 'I understand what you're trying to say, and I agree with you that Jordan will be surpassed in the future. Jordan is not the greatest ever.' It's simple, really...as for all my other comments, you've reacted - probably 80% of the time - exactly how I figured you would: like a spoiled child who couldn't get his way...
EG wrote:What do you honestly think would happen if you told someone's parents your simple observation that their child was a fool who can't think?
I dunno, how about you try it first and let me know...I'm not a masochist.
EG wrote:It was necessary.
No, it wasn't. What does it have to do with a basketball discussion? Absolutely nothing. You're just trying to divert attention away from the topic onto me, trying to place doubt in my statements by attempting to make me seem like an insecure computer geek who spazzes because someone disagrees with me on a message board...
EG wrote:The only concern I have with you is these boards
Eh?
EG wrote:so my observation was about how you might go about getting people to listen to what you want to tell them on this board instead of getting angry
But I'm not angry...I can't prove it to you, but I'm not angry. I rarely use exlamation marks or all caps, and when I use all caps it's to emphasize a point because I'm too lazy to do bold formatting...
EG wrote:As far as I go...It's obvious that you overreact to small things I say and you perceive insults (or negative observations if that's the way you want to refer to it) where there are none.
You were mocking opinions of other board members - insulting them - and you did that intentionally. You put thought into your post before you made it, and you're doing it again by mocking my statement about how I was simply making observations. I was, there was no malice intended towards anyone. You'll know when I'm trying to insult you...
EG wrote:You got very angry, for example, when I asked you if something you said was sarcastic because I couldn't tell
No, I didn't get angry. I assumed you were being a prick, since that does seem to be a personality trait that you posess...
EG wrote:All I meant was what I said...I can't tell when people are being sarcastic online and sometimes I have to ask.
It works both ways...I couldn't tell you were being serious. No one's at fault...and I certainly was not angry.
EG wrote:You overreacted to it though. When I say I understand you get emotional...I mean I understand that you have a tendency to overreact to things I say.
Sheesh, you have a high opinion of yourself. You honestly think that I care so much about what you think of me that the slightest little comment gets me in an uproar? "Waaaaah, EG was mean!!! I'm gonna lock myself in a room for a week! Waaaah!!" For crying out loud, take a deep breath and pull your head out of your ass. I'm not overreacting, I'm responding. I'm not emotional, I'm responding. I'm not agry, I'm responding. It's really quite simple. I am JUST RESPONDING. Nothing more, nothing less. I don't like you, yes, but all that other crap you're pulling out of no where? Please.
EG wrote:If you wonder why I gloss over these comments...it's because you seem to flip-flop your opinion of my debating skills or intelligence from post to post. I don't say "thanks" or acknowledge it because your statements go from positive to negative so frequently...
*sigh* I've always said your debating skills suck...and I always say 'you're more intelligent' or 'you're smarter than that'...my opinion has never flip-flopped in this regard. You bring up points that are wrong (see the 'ever' comments), you repeat things other people have said, things that don't bring anything fresh to the discussion, and then you bash me when I say the same thing; how can I say anything new when you don't bring up any new points? It leads to stagnation of discussion, and then we have the 'tired' discussion that we always have.
EG wrote:You don't have to convince me of anything Shane. I think you express yourself well in writing (when you're not being demeaning) and you should expect people to see that.
So what was the point to bring up the use of words to get one's point across if you knew I can express myself in writing? When I'm not being demeaning...ooo, clever...I'm one of the few people on the board who don't make fun of someone else daily...so don't even say that.
EG wrote:Scub thinks I know nothing about basketball history...I didn't feel the need to prove anything to him because I'm confident that I have a very good knowledge of basketball history. Same principle...
But you were lecturing me on the importance of meaning and words...and then you say I do that. It's completely different...you contradicted yourself in consecutive posts. Also, it's different in another regard: I have others telling me that I'm a great writer and what not; yours is your own personal opinion on your own knowledge. Big difference...
EG wrote:You really seem to be regressing into your negative 'observations' like you have in the past. You're a smart enough person to know when what you're observing will insult someone. In my case, whe someone is making demeaning comments it just makes me pay a lot less attention to their point. I've been open and closed-minded to you at times depending on the level of the discussion and I think you know that.
No, I'm smart enough to know that the stuff I say will offend someone - namely you - but not insult. If you were truly insulted, you'd be making a huge deal about it, but as it is, you're doing nothing more than calling me immature - when in fact, you're doing the exact same thing when you mock my comments. How hypocritical...oh, as for the open and closed minded...I wouldn't be a dick if you actually listened to the points, and since you're closed minded and don't listen to the points, I get sarcastic...but not until you've ignored all logic and every single valid point I've made.
EG wrote:Like I said...I'd gladly apologize if I said something that you didn't like if it meant a mature exchange of ideas with less negative observations...
If you want a mature discussion, don't start your first post like this:
EG wrote:I don't know why...Jordan is a washed up loser who wasn't that great to begin wi...oh wait...sorry...mistook myself for some other people on this board...
How mature THAT was...