The whole story is nuts and not entertaining at all. I believe anyone with an even slightly objective and unbiased mind can tell that this is just media speculation and fake sensationalism. Kobe didn't say anything offensive. I know the kid has an ego big enough to be a county, but this time he just said what anyone would say about a player who can't decide what to do. Too many words and opinions wasted on something that was meant to end the second after it was said.
Give him a break, and save everything for the next time he will say/do something really out of the lines.