The Letting Off Steam Thread

[Riot]

There are really four choices/options in this situation:

1. There is no baby and he is overracting.
2. He could screw up his life and live on welfare or worse.
3. Abortion and move on with your life.
4. He's lying.

Personally, I hate abortion. I think abortion should be banned besides in extreme situations (like rape). I think abortion is wrong but I mean hell, it's legal you should do it.

[cyanide]

Damn, that's one screwed up situation. Of course, the first mistake was doing it without a condom, and no matter what, you'll regret that for the rest of your life. If she is in fact pregnant, there are one of two things you will regret:

1. You're stuck with someone you don't want to spend the rest of your life with, your career takes a detour, your schooling suffers; basically, your life won't be as good as it could be, because of a child you have to bring in this world. Your child might be the greastest thing that could ever happen to you, which may be your life, or the worst thing that could ever happen to you.

2. You go through with an abortion, and have to live the rest of your life knowing that there was a child that could've been... along with this pain, you may succeed in school, with a career, be with somebody you want to be with, and have children of your own. The fact still remains that you could've had a child, but didn't.

Take your pick, and good luck.

[iG®]

Hater Jae locked thread about 9th anniversary of 2Pac's death just because it had similiar name like that one with WTC anniversary. That just sucks, Jae, shame on you :nono: .

[J@3]

Lol yeah, we really needed a thread about the 9th anniversary of the death of some rapper

[iG®]

Maybe you don't feel you need it, but someone other do. It's so simple .

[J@3]

Post it in the rap thread Toolio. Or get over it, what impact could he have on your life homeboy

[iG®]

:lol: , Jae says someone that he's a Tool. That's funny indeed.

















Tool.

[Doobie]

Well , I'm not sure if shes pregnant , Shes taking a test next week , she gonna buy one of those things during the weekend . Anyways shes going through all the syptoms of pregnancy thats why we are both worried .

[Doobie]

My parents , fuck them . My dad is an ass who left the house , don't need him , my mom thinks im a drug addict and hates me , so fuck her . She refuses to have an abortion , no matter what . I agree with her , I've always thought abortion was wrong , and now cause it happened to me , doesn't mean I'm changing my opinion about it . I'm not happy about have a kid and being 16 is WAY to early , but I'm not going to bitch out and I'm going to be a damn father . I'm not happy now , but eventually I will be fuckin happy ,My only true goal in life was to have a REAL family , This was all an accident , but what can I do now . I'm not going to force her to abbort it . I know I won't be able to live my life , but I won't be able to live it right either way knowing that I have a fucking child somewhere. This is a Life -changing expierience , and I'm here to take it head on.It's my fault , no matter what I'm going to take responsibilty to it.

Ok, the whole "it's me vs. the world" attitude is cute and all but you seem like a pretty big dumbass right now.

How do I seem like a dumbass?? I can't force her to do something she don't wanna do . and she lives like 3 houses away from me so its not like I could just leave and never come back . Her parents will find out and inform my mom , and my mom would make me take care of it . So theres nothing I can do either way.

[Riot]

I just think your whole attitude on the matter is funny. You obviously have no idea what you are getting into or you are faking it. I'm 16 and if I made a baby I wouldn't say "I gotta do it I'm a father and imma be one hell of a mofo father". I'd be saying "how the fuck can I get out of this?".

If she is pregnant, pay her to get an abortion or pay her to take care of the baby by herself if she really wants to keep it. You fucked her and she let you fuck her, and if you don't want to fuck up your life then either she has to get rid of it, put it up for adoption or keep it herself. She screwed up just as much as you did.

[Doobie]

I know its not only my fault , I know that this is messing up my life . She doesn't want Adoption or abortion . And I'm saying , i made a mistake , I'll help the girl because she means alot to me , I am taking this much more seriously then it seems . If I helped create the baby , I might as well grow up and take care of my creatino , shes taking care of it , I atleast wanna help . There's NOTHING I can do to get out of it , she doesnt want an abortion or to put the child up for adoption. The most I can do is pray that she is not pregnant . But if she is I'm taking responsibilty and atleast helping her .

[Riot]

All I'm saying is you'll be changing your tune when you have to work 2 jobs and still go to school at the same time. And she drops out to take care of the baby full time. Screwing up both your life, her life and the childs life.

The kid would be better off going to a foster home and being adopted by a family that is ready for a child.

[Doobie]

i know it is , but she doesnt want to let it go . I just pray she isn't pregnant , Thats all im asking god for , that she isn't.

[Riot]

If she doesn't want to then fuck her (not literally, doogie). Tell her you want what's best for the kid and yourself. Say abort it, put it up for adoption or I'll write you a check for $200 and see you later.

[FendeR`]

I have to at least somewhat agree with Riot. I can't imagine what it'd be like going through school with the pressure of 2 crappy jobs and a baby to feed. If you keep it, your life will problably spiral down into working multiple minimum wage jobs and just barely getting by, if you do get by. You may have been dumb enough to skip the rubber, but I think it'd be a hell of a lot better to get out of the situation while you can, instead of knowing you fucked up AND having an insanely difficult life.

[Jackal_]

First off, make sure she's either pregnant or not.. if she's not then I hope you learned a lesson from it.. if she is well thats when you have to sit down and talk about this with both families.. sounds like a hard thing to do but once you know for sure your gf is pregnant make a meeting between both your families.. hear their input about the matter. I'm sure they'll agree with us. Honestly man do what I say, you'll see it'll work out ok for you.

[cyanide]

I find it so ironic that Riot is strongly suggesting Doobie to go do an abortion, yet Riot is strongly against abortion!

[Riot]

I'm saying they should get it aborted or put it up for adoption. Obviously, adoption would be the better choice but I have my doubts that a 16 year old girl could handle pregnancy effectively and child birth would be extremely painful for her.

[Doobie]

even more painful considering that she is a 5'1 tall and weighs 105 lbs!!

[Fresh8]

I feel for u doobie... damn

Hey fellas... how overdue can girl's periods be??? Just need a heads up.. me and my friend got up to no good and... yeah... we're waiting. It was 4 weeks ago... so Im wonderin how long is long? As in overdue?

And letting off more steam... I figured im in this stupid love triangle thing. The girl i like, played with me. And her best friend likes me but I don't like her back... boy its all screwed...

[Riot]

We have a bunch of playas on this forum.

[BOSS]

We should make like a ... " The Relationship Thread".

So everyone can speak about there problems, tips, etc.

Should I make one ?

[nbalive744]

OMG THE FUCKING FALCONS BEATHT THE EAGLES 14-10 IM SO FUCKING PISSED OFF THEY LOST THERE SEASON OPENER FUCKING TROTTER GOT EJECTED WTF AND EAGLES HAD SO MANY DAMN CHANCES AND THEY BLEW EM ALL WTF##$@#$@#%$%#$#@#@#^%^@#%%@%^#@#%^%^@#%^@#%#^#%^

[Fresh8]

Go ahead Initial D.. make one!

[COOLmac©]

the grace period is 15 days till 1 month. if the morning sickness starts to kick in then you're both fuck.....
doobie i'm a career guy with a career woman. a baby is not just a baby. it will grow to be a kid teen then eventually an adult. its not just responsibilities its a LIFETIME comiitment to the toddler. so like me i am in a tight spot. i cant be much help for you man. when i was 16 or so i did it with protection, when i became a yuppie i let the girl on the pills. but damn shit happens. its what makes life more interesting. so the descicion is up to you. if you like to have a family now so be it. just hold your chin high and look at the world happy.